October 14, 2007 at 5:05 pm · Filed under Uncategorized and tagged: goals, self-improvement
OK, I’m changing my end date to December 21, since that’s the official first day of winter. I think it’s going well. . . .
Things to finish (2 out of 6 done):
Things to make specific progress on (6 out of 10 begun):
- Read 43 books about my city Read 3 more. Working on one right now.
- Explore 43 new places in my city Add 6. I think I’ve already got there, just need to post them.
- Get the medical care I need Get this MRI bullshit figured the hell out! Also, begin bodywork/massage therapy. Made new neuro appointment; tried a massage therapist but she was so-so, so I’m still looking.
- Stick to my FlyLady routines like glue Build an evening routine which I can live with, and stick to it. Doing the routine most evenings and it’s helping a lot!
- Volunteer Post about most recent experience; decide whether to start a new volunteership or take a break.
- Not have a headache. Get a follow up CT scan and discuss with doc.
- Have a better relationship with my brother Get through the current horrific family crisis without causing any further damage to an already strained relationship. Had an exhausting but important visit, and had some really good talks with my brother. Still tentative, but it feels like we’re both reaching out for the first time in . . . well, ever.
- Find alternatives to Google products. At least post about the alternatives I’m already using.
- Get strong Keep riding the bike as late in the year as possible. Rode yesterday! Hopefully will ride some more this week.
- Be a better friend Remain close to caught up on returning emails and phone messages.
Ongoing things to do (1.5 out of 3 going well):
Next steps . . . post about Chicago books and places; try to break through whatever block is keeping me from feeling creative at all, so I can get back to journaling and deal with the altered book project.
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September 26, 2007 at 12:12 am · Filed under Uncategorized and tagged: goals, self-improvement
Here is what I’m aiming for by December 15. I’m trying to be more realistic than I was with my summer challenge.
Things to finish (6):
Things to make specific progress on (10):
Ongoing things to do (3):
That’s 19 things total, compared to 26 from the summer, and only 6 to fully finish, as compared to 12 before (and really one of the 6 is already done). I think this is really do-able! Here I go!
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September 22, 2007 at 4:53 am · Filed under Uncategorized and tagged: goals, self-improvement
Well, I’ve totally dropped out recently, which has sucked. But I still kept on track with some things. Here’s my final assessment of my accomplishments:
Succeeded:
- Have my ring re-sized.
- Get people to fill out this johari and nohari thing.
- Tell my father I love him.
- Give up gluten for one month. (Either do this, or take it off the list, or change it to a more useful goal.)
- Survive my first Chicago Spring.
- Buy a bike.Yay for Chapman!!!
- Use del.icio.us.
- Synchronize my 43T things and Remember the Milk tasks.
- Challenge myself this summer!
- Practice discardia. Do this at least one more time.
- Get the medical care I need. Get back on antidepressants; get more help with my neck and shoulder (meds, therapy, or both).
- Get my LCSW. Find out what this entails in Illinois.
- Adopt 2 children. Make a short list of 3 to 5 adoption agencies that might be good matches for us.
- Get strong. Have a plan by the end of the summer.
- Be a better friend.
- Volunteer
Failed/Gave up:
- Organize my Issues of Vegetarian Times by August of 2007.
- Create an altered book.
- Post 100 quotes that I like for whatever reason! Get up to 60.
- Stick to my FlyLady routines. Continue doing my morning routine most mornings. Have an evening routine and do it most evenings.
- Read 43 books about my city. Read at least 3 more.
- Explore 43 new places in my city. Add at least 6 more.
- Be sexually healthy. Figure out what what will help me achieve this goal.
- Journal
- Learn CSS
- Quit my job.
So, that’s 16 goals which I either accomplished outright or met my summer milestones for, and 9 which I either failed at or gave up on. That’s not bad . . . but I think I’ll be less ambitious/more realistic with the fall challenge. (Yes, let’s do a fall challenge!)
I’ll post specific things under each actual goal. Although I only accomplished a little under 2/3 of my goals, this was extremely helpful for me. It really helped me prioritize and focus, and everyone’s encouragement was really motivating. Plus, just posting the updates was great, because often I didn’t even realize how much I was accomplishing until I wrote it all down.
Yup . . . worth doing!
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July 8, 2007 at 12:07 am · Filed under Chicago and tagged: books

Chicago: City on the Make: 50th Anniversary Edition, Newly Annotated
by Nelson Algren
I generally mark everything I “consume” as being worth it, because if it wasn’t I wouldn’t finish it. That said, this was a tough one to swallow. Algren was clearly angry and bitter and seemed to have pretty much given up on Chicago by the time he wrote this. He spends most of the book detailing how clout, corruption, and greed have shaped the city from day one, but I couldn’t even understand a lot of it because at least every other sentence refers to some person, event, or scandal that might have been familiar to people in his time, or historians, but means nothing to me. Having the annotated version helped with this, but it was still slow reading.
On the other hand, Algren obviously loved the people of the city, although he might not have had much faith in their ability to ever make good. This is the essay where he gave us this immortal and beautiful line:
“Once you’ve come to be a part of this particular patch, you’ll never love another. Like loving a woman with a broken nose, you may well find lovelier lovelies. But never a lovely so real.”
(This is the inspiration for the title of Never a City So Real.)
I enjoyed the stories of the wacky Chicago characters the best. Many of these are referred to only in passing by Algren, but are fully explained in the annotations. Just one tidbit: Streeterville is named after “Cap” Streeter, who parked his boat offshore and claimed a sort of island, which had been created by landfilling in the lake, as an independent province. He refused to pay taxes, and the city took him to court. There were also gun battles in the area as he held off law enforcement. Eventually, Chicago won, but a neighborhood near all these shenanigans still has Cap Streeter’s name.
Reading this has definitely led me to look at my new home differently. This city has a hell of a lot of heart . . . but how about a soul?
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July 7, 2007 at 2:54 am · Filed under Chicago and tagged: bikes
The Recyclery
The Recyclery, a non-profit (501c3) collective, seeks to build community through the restoration of donated and discarded bicycles. With these bikes we offer a sustainable form of transportation at little to no cost. We wish to further open ourselves and our resources to the community at large with programs that teach bicycle maintenance, safety, and environmental awareness.
Working Bikes
Working Bikes is primarily volunteer-driven. Currently it receives no government or foundation money. All its operations are funded through the sale of bicycles at its storefront. Working Bikes uses that money to provide bicycles to charity organizations within Chicagoland and to ship bicycles to the Gulf Coast, Cuba, Guatemala, Ecuador, and many other places of need.
Easy Rider
Easy Rider Bike Shop was Established in 1974 and has serviced
thousands of customers. We sell new and used bikes and repair all makes. If you are looking to replace your old bike, come trade it in.
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